Friends are really important. They are people who you accept as they are, with their pluses and minuses. Around your real friends you act natural and don't pretend to be something you are really not. Unfortunately, it is quite hard to make a real one and not to lose them along the way.
They say that you have a certain space for friendship, and as soon as you fill it up, then there is no more space to accomodate anybody. You stop accepting people into your life and your soul, especially if you got hurt in the past. Until a couple of years ago, I did not doubt the theory was 100% true because new people just couldn't make it to my heart. They couldn't make it until I finally realized that I deliberately blocked my heart and wouldn't let them in. I didn't see, or didn't want to see, when people sincerely wanted to share their things with me.
Now I am convinced that the theory is wrong. You can open your heart to people and enjoy their company. The worst thing about making new friends is fear. Fear prevented me from enjoying being with people for some time. It won't anymore.
Breakfast: Toasts with chopped tomatoes, salt and olive oil. Green Tea.
Midday: An orange.
Lunch: Mixed Salad (lettuce, rucula, boiled beetroots, mozarella, tomatoes, salt, olive oil and vinegar)
Afternoon: An apple and a banana.
Dinner: Our Italian friends invited us over. They prepared Fish Carbonara Pasta and grilled fish, and we took a homemade dessert to the dinner. Check the picture out!
The food was yummy, but the company was even better. That day we laughed so much, my mouth joints started aching. And as always, we tried to take the most of the day!
They say that you have a certain space for friendship, and as soon as you fill it up, then there is no more space to accomodate anybody. You stop accepting people into your life and your soul, especially if you got hurt in the past. Until a couple of years ago, I did not doubt the theory was 100% true because new people just couldn't make it to my heart. They couldn't make it until I finally realized that I deliberately blocked my heart and wouldn't let them in. I didn't see, or didn't want to see, when people sincerely wanted to share their things with me.
Now I am convinced that the theory is wrong. You can open your heart to people and enjoy their company. The worst thing about making new friends is fear. Fear prevented me from enjoying being with people for some time. It won't anymore.
Breakfast: Toasts with chopped tomatoes, salt and olive oil. Green Tea.
Midday: An orange.
Lunch: Mixed Salad (lettuce, rucula, boiled beetroots, mozarella, tomatoes, salt, olive oil and vinegar)
Afternoon: An apple and a banana.
Dinner: Our Italian friends invited us over. They prepared Fish Carbonara Pasta and grilled fish, and we took a homemade dessert to the dinner. Check the picture out!
The food was yummy, but the company was even better. That day we laughed so much, my mouth joints started aching. And as always, we tried to take the most of the day!
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